The “My means or the Highway” Mind-Set

The “My means or the Highway” Mind-Set

Love-Breaking Language

• “I might like to do this.” • “We should do this.” • “You’re wrong!” • “That’s not the way it’s.”

Outcomes in: lack of self and feeling flat, resentful, and disconnected.

Love-Making approved: From “Me” to “We”

Go from “I”-centered to “we”-focused. Forget about a fixed mindset and embrace an improvement mindset. You compromise until both are pleased. Partnering requires integration and frequently concessions. Satisfaction will not always mean one or both ongoing events manage to get thier method.

Create integration that is joyful. My buddy and self- confidence advisor Susan Leahy usually iterates the“You that are mind-set become delighted, and I also deserve become delighted,” and who is able to argue with that? Continue reading “The “My means or the Highway” Mind-Set”